Asked by Anonymous
First off, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Not being able to orgasm is extremely normal and common so don’t go thinking that something is wrong with you.
I can’t give you a specific reason why you are not able to orgasm but what I can tell you is practice makes perfect. Try masturbating a bit more, trying lots of different positions and types of foreplay etc. eventually you will find something that works for you.
One last thing to think about. When you are having sex, don’t think. ‘I must orgasm, that is the goal.’ Because then I am almost positive you wont. Try not to think of an orgasm being the only reason you are having sex, it will be something that you will eventually build up to. I know lots of women find that they are thinking about climaxing to much to actually be able to do it, as they worry to much!
Hope this helps!
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